How to Stop Sacrificing Your Self for Belonging w— Erin Kelley

Today I’m sharing my second conversation with writer and astrologer Erin Kelley.

We tell our personal (and planetary) stories of loss, seduction, codependency, and people-pleasing — as we explore how mid-life transits can become portals to authentic intimacy.

We also discuss Erin's Slow Magick practice and how to change your life in sacred time.

As soon as I started to do the deep work… it changed how I was in my relationships. Once I was able to show up in a different way and be intimate in a whole new experience — that freedom of expression showed me how: “Oh no sweetie, you weren’t just codependent in your romantic relationships. That shit was everywhere.” — Erin Kelley

we discuss —

• the power of a second act
• mid-life transits as portals for transformation
• ending cycles of Self-abandonment
• starting over after loss of love, job, money, everything
• Neptune’s illusions and delusions
• the tension between the 1st house of Self and the 7th house of Other
• releasing codependence and people-pleasing
• what committed partnership really means
• the devotional practice of Slow Magick
• the pleasure of stepping into the Moment

LINKS

If you enjoyed the episode, check out —

• R.I.P. Good Girl
• Business as Initiation, grace on an episode of Off the Grid
• Listen to grace on Erin’s podcast The Nature of Invisible Things

More about our guest —

• Slow Magick website
• Slow Magick on IG
• Slow Magick on Substack
• Devotional Astrology & Tarot - A heart-centered experience of the stars and cards grounded in everyday life

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